- Sexual preference
Get to know your partner, build conversation, and find out what they like or dislike and what can be done, female is harder to have an orgasm than a male, so try to understand what her body responds to.
2. Open mind
Talk openly, about what you are willing to try, make yourself comfortable with your partner first, and be willing to talk about anything.
3. Improve confident
Built up a high and healthy level of confidence inside and outside the bedroom, Endorse you.
4. Suggestion
Find some articles and their benefits and then introduce the topic suggesting it seems like a lot of fun and you would like to try it, ask what’s their opinion.
5. Select the BEST TIME to introduce things
Wait until you have a couple of sex sessions, and give compliments to your partner, it’s easier to talk about sex toys when your partner is confident knowing he can satisfy you.
6. Mutual Orgasm
Share with your partner, and get him involved, the problem most men have with sex toys is that they will be left out, so make sure it’s a win-win for you both.
7. Foreplay
Stimulate her, and use foreplay, she needs to be mentally prepared and be present in the mind and the moment. Watching videos if you need to, knowledge is the key. she needs to feel that you know exactly what you are doing.
8. Exploring
Be adventurous, always try introducing something new, whether in the bedroom or outside. How about trying something you have never done somewhere otherwise from in the bed.
9. Lubes and Essentials
Always add lubricant or some form of enhancement in the bedroom so sex can feel better and endure, lubricant prevents dryness during sex, which can turn you off, there are a lot of other essentials you can try, and don’t miss out on pleasure.
10. Provide an opportunity for self-pleasure
Give your man/woman a sex toy as a gift and let he/she try it on their own before introducing it into the couple’s play.
11. Sex and health
Sickness can hinder one from enjoying their sex life you can always add a sex toy to fill in what can not be done by both of you.